Mom & I had a long discussion, cleared the air, all that.
She mis-interpreted what I had done earlier and I was mis-interpreting what she's been doing lately. Lots of mis-understandings were cleared up. We even got to talk about some things that (specifically) I've been holding back on for a long time now. There were tears, but we hugged in the end and I pointed out that we don't hug all that much anymore. Mom answered that I can hug her anytime & I said the same thing went for her. Awww. :)
I know we didn't solve everything, but at least it's better than it was. I'm gonna tear up that list I was working on.